by Tuan Rizan Adahan | Apr 3, 2020 | Bond of bliss
Bismih Ta’ala. By nature a woman considers it as a loving gesture to offer advice. But, for a man, unless it is asked for, he doesn’t like to be told what to do. Men will appreciate that a women trusts them to solve their problems. This trust has a big impact on men,...
by Tuan Rizan Adahan | Apr 3, 2020 | Bond of bliss
Bismih Ta’ala. Love at times fails because people ‘give’ what they ‘want’, little realizing that what they ‘give’ is not what others ‘want’. For example, when a woman’s primary love need are ‘to be cared for’ and ‘understood’ and so forth as discussed earlier, she...
by Tuan Rizan Adahan | Apr 3, 2020 | Bond of bliss
Bismih Ta’ala. All Praise be to Allah for enabling me to finish the Bond of Bliss – Part 30 successful, Alhamdulillah. I have written about the ways that men and women expect love, in my last episodes, and have so far discussed four such ways. Today, the last two...
by Tuan Rizan Adahan | Apr 3, 2020 | Bond of bliss
Bismih Ta’ala. Respect is a very important requirement for a woman. How will a woman feel respected? When a man responds in a way to show importance to her rights, wishes and needs, she will feel truly respected. When a husband behaves in a way giving and showing...
by Tuan Rizan Adahan | Apr 3, 2020 | Bond of bliss
Bismih Ta’ala. What a woman needs primarily is that her feelings and well-being should be taken care of. Therefore, if a man shows interest and true concern in these two matters, she will feel loved and cared for. If she is made felt special in this caring way, he...
by Tuan Rizan Adahan | Apr 3, 2020 | Bond of bliss
Bismih Ta’ala. What is love and how do we understand it. Love is an emotional need for something. And what is that something? For example when a woman receives caring, understanding, respect, devotion, support and encouragement, then, she will feel that she has...
